<p>When i had a relationship that was not going well, i would try to dissect the dynamics of the two of us to see it more clearly. By putting the pro’s and con’s down on paper i would be able to look at things from a less emotional perspective. You have basically done that in a way with all that you have written about your relationship here. Maybe it is time for you to take a step back and look at your relationship objectively.</p>
<p>Are you comfortable with her depending on you as much as she does? A lot of what you wrote was how she needed you for help with classes and how she could not handle the distance and whatever else. She could be a wonderful girlfriend when you are together but it sounds like she depends on you for a lot. That is not going to change if you don’t do something about it.</p>
<p>Have you considered taking a break. It doesn’t mean that you need to break up but it sounds like you need some emotional space. Give yourself some time to breath emotionally and then consider what you want out of life. If you get some space in your relationship she will also be forced to become more self reliant. That would be a positive thing for her.</p>