<p>I’ll be the fifth person to say this: stay in Cali. Don’t go 60k in debt (more if you can’d do it in 2 years) just because she wants you there. That is absurd.</p>
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Think of it this way: if the relationship is worth the time/ has a future, distance should not matter for such a short amount of time (2-3 years). </p>
<p>If she’s giving you an ultimatum like this, and you do go to Indiana, trust me that she’ll just find some other reason to end it.</p>