<p>I just started college this week. I want to meet guys but I am not interested in any guys in my dorm or guys I meet at frat parties since I am looking for a relationship rather than just hooking up. </p>
<p>Where do you meet guys?</p>
<p>If you find out, let me know.</p>
<p>I'm convinced that I'm just never going to find someone I'm attracted to at my school. It's miserable.</p>
<p>I don't think you can just 'meet' guys. They're sort of just there if you're looking for a relationship. Just have both male and female friends and don't limit the amount of new people that you meet.</p>
<p>Stop looking. And hello, you only started college a week ago. Chill.</p>
<p>Haha. Yeah, that too.</p>
<p>No hookups? I wouldnt tell them that... :D</p>
<p>get out of your dorm as much as possible (not that you arnt already), if you see a guy your interested in, make sure you send the proper signals.</p>
<p>I don't think you should think too hard about it even when you do think a guy likes you. Just do what comes naturally to you.. At least, that's what I think I do. I've been with my boyfriend for like a year and I can't seem to remember a time before that. lol.</p>
<p>Okay, not really. I would personally just be a total f**cking tease until they get the message that I like them. Just drive em crazy until they make a move. That way you don't have to be the one making the first move and you avoid embarrassment. =]</p>
<p>Don't categorize guys either... if you want a relationship, then get to know guys and let them get to know you, but be patient... relationships take time... if you hook up too soon, then you can forget about relationship, because you have become less than stellar.</p>
<p>Wha? If you hook up with a guy you become 'less than stellar'? What does that mean?</p>
<p>I think he means that it'll be more difficult for guys to respect you. </p>
<p>Which might be stupid, but it's mostly true. </p>
<p>And not like just hook up with a guy where it's understood that its casual or whatever, but hook up with a guy way too fast in order to get him into a relationship.</p>
<p>Woah, don't start out college looking for a relationship! I mean, sure, have it in the back of your head that you'd eventually like to do something serious, but that's definitely not what your focus should be on, especially in the first semester. Focus on making lots of friends of both sexes... join activities where you'll met people with similar interests... chat with people in your classes... and eventually you'll meet somebody who interests you, without having to waste your valuable time and energy which should be going toward exploring every aspect of your new college life.</p>
<p>aha.I guess sex too soon can be a little disastrous. Anyway, making him wait is better, it's much more fun. ;]</p>
<p>^true. </p>
<p>i can personally say not all guys respect girls less if the hook up with them or move fast. </p>
<p>i think it's retarded when guys respect girls less if when hook up quickly. girls don't respect guys less if they'll hook up with them quickly...usually. eh, but that's how it usually is. i can see why they would think less of them...but hello, they're doing the same exact thing. oh well.</p>
<p>Yeah. I didn't say it was right. Just said it's common.</p>
<p>Common sexism, unfortunately.</p>
<p>At college, you can find guys in the following places:</p>
<p>-Classes
-Cafeteria
-Library
-Gym
-Clubs
-Sporting Events
-Bookstore
-Parking Lot
-Guest Speaker Lecture
-Facebook</p>
<p>That covers a lot of ground. Don't be afraid to just start small talk with someone (guy or girl).</p>
<p>Although these are buddies of mine (and most are of the same gender), I met my close friends throughout MS/HS...</p>
<p>-by sitting next to someone new on the bus and starting a conversation
-by doing a project with someone for class
-by sitting next to someone in class
-through other people
-because one of my buddies dated someone (this is how I met some close female friends)</p>
<p>The same stuff applies in college (except the school bus...replace it with whatever).</p>
<p>And don't be so set on a relationship. A strong friendship with an opposite sex person can be even better in many cases.</p>
<p>If you are cute then you will eventually meet many guys, if not then don't even try.</p>
<p>^ I haven't met a girl that couldn't be 'cute' if she just put a little effort in to it.</p>
<p>Waxing, doing your eyebrows, makeup, doing your hair, dressing better and a diet can do wonders to the 'ugliest' people.</p>
<p>lol... facebook... right.. :)</p>
<p>Ooh, Facebook is a great idea too.</p>