<p>I was wondering if anyone has ever done that. You see a person, guy/girl, a lot around the campus, and feel like he/she is the kind of person you'd like to meet whether because you think they're attractive and you're thinking of going out with the person or you think could make could good friends. Yet...you don't have any classes with them! You only get to see them randomly, maybe not even every day, so it's hard to think of a way of starting a conversation without making it seem weird! Especially since you don't know if the person noticed you too, and assuming that probably not! So has anyone ever just wanted to meet someone and found of way of doing it? How did you do it and did you actually get to know each other? :)</p>
<p>As said above simply start a convo, feel free to bring up the whole seeing them so much so it doesnt seem so random. If the person has noticed you and if they have given smiles(usually what happens in my case) the convo should be that much more easier.</p>
<p>there's this thing called facebook... if you happen to know their name or if you just randomly see that person on someone's friends list, friend them or send them a message.</p>
<p>the facebook thing is borderline creepy/stalkerish...i would just sit or walk by them and try to spark up a conversation...what do you like about this person?</p>
<p>yeah, I found out the person's name and looked at his facebook profile and he just seems like a really nice guy :) But friending him just like that out of nowhere does feel a little creepy... It's more difficult to get to talk to him too, because most of the time I'm with a friend/roommate when I see him or he's already sitting with a bunch of friends at the dining hall etc...so has anyone actually started talking to a random person like that?</p>
<p>what year are you? If you are a freshman and your school started not too long ago then it's not creepy to walk up to random people and start conversations (thats how I made a bunch of my friends). One thing may be to stand in line behind him at the dining hall and just start a random conversation. The next best thing I can think of is going to a party where he is and start talking to him there.</p>
<p>good lord people on this website have problems... next post title will be "how do i go to the bathroom, or how do i study for my test". the people that post these crappy questions need to suck it up and figure it out instead of hoping that some dr. phil-like person will magically be on college confidential to solve all of their problems that are brought on by their pathetic social skills.</p>
<p>Personally,I don't know how to stop a person on campus and strike up a conversation.It seems that,they have their own business and I shouldn't talk to them unless I need to.</p>
<p>you give them the "look" and smile first and if she smiles back and give you the "look," you can make your move and start by going hey and well strike a general conversation.
well rest is up to you, and if you are still curious you may want to start a thread on how to start a general conversation</p>
<p>this is straight from the mystery method, this is called day game. you don't have to do this with the goal of picking up girls, you can still follow MM simply to make friends and meet new people.</p>
<p>try an opinion opener, like "hey, i gotta go in a minute (false time constraint, to disarm the target from worrying that you might bother him/her for a while), but can i have your opinion on something....."
Or, if you are really observant and witty, you can try to make up a situational opener on the spot which would seem more natural and spontaneous than an opinion opener, for example "hey, i can only stay for a second, but i cant help notice your purse, my grandma has the exact same kind"
try to be cocky and funny if the target is hot
tune down the cockiness if the target is not so hot</p>
<p>I was wondering if anyone has ever done that. You see a person, guy/girl, a lot around the campus, and feel like he/she is the kind of person you'd like to meet whether because you think they're attractive and you're thinking of going out with the person or you think could make could good friends. Yet...you don't have any classes with them! You only get to see them randomly, maybe not even every day, so it's hard to think of a way of starting a conversation without making it seem weird! Especially since you don't know if the person noticed you too, and assuming that probably not! So has anyone ever just wanted to meet someone and found of way of doing it? How did you do it and did you actually get to know each other?
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<p>"Hey, I see you around campus all the time, but I don't think we've ever met. My name is Tally1, I'm a freshman/sophomore/junior/senior/sanitation worker/creepy alum at this school." </p>