<p>Thought from a high school senior!
Of course, I don’t know the whole story, but I do know that letting him do his own thing could, <em>could,</em> help. I’m a self-motivated person, and when others try to motivate me, I usually push back and do less than if I was just let alone.</p>
<p>Besides, he’s in college now, and needs to learn to take care of himself.</p>