We’re still waiting for some decisions to come in, but it’s looking like my DS is going to be in a good place in terms of acceptances. He’s already got a good handful to choose from, and he doesn’t know how to narrow it down so I was hoping for some suggestions for how I can help give him some tools to narrow down or things to think about or what have you.
To know:
- He wants to be an engineer, probably civil, maybe not. He really doesn’t know so he’s very excited about schools that have some kind of first year program where you get to see all the engineering disciplines and sort of try them on.
- But he’s also worried that what if he doesn’t stick with engineering, will the school have enough other choices? To know here, he has loved his humanities classes in highschool. He’s gotten fives on AP tests in English/History/Latin and tends to really enjoy his “social studies” type classes. He’s also done well in his math and science, and loves tinkering with things and building things and solving problems. Engineering seems like a good fit, but if it’s not, I could see him wanting something liberal-arts-y.
- He plays a sport. Two of the schools he’s applying to (Lehigh and WPI) have the sport as a school team, and he’d likely make the team. The other schools have club teams - at some it seems ok, at others his high school team is likely better. He mostly plays for the comeraderie and fitness, but he really doesn’t like losing. At at least one of the schools on his list, the team would lose. A lot.
- He’s not super into social things, but he likes people. He’s always been too busy with his sport to be really social, but I could see him enjoying a school with games and things to go to, although he’s not actively looking for that.
- He will likely want to live on the East Coast when he’s done with school, so alumni networks or internship opportunities that are stronger in the East would be better.
- He has a learning disability. He’s dyslexic. He’s able to manage it well, and reach out for help when needed, but a school where class sizes are reasonable and it’s expected that students will reach out to and work with professors would be good.
- He goes to a very competitive high school. He’ll likely be successful academically at all the schools to which he’s applied. But I’d like him to not feel as stressed out all the time as HS has been for him.
- Cost - we’ve gotten merit aid for all the schools for which it would be needed to make them feasible (with the exception of the one school we haven’t heard back yet where merit would be needed) so while cost isn’t the same for these, it’s also not a major factor.
- Location - he likes the idea of being city-adjacent, or at least able to get somewhere to do/see something, but realistically, I don’t know how often that will happen. He also really liked campuses that felt like a real campus, where you knew you were there when you were on campus.
So - our choices (thank you to anyone still reading along here…)
He’s in at Pitt/Engineering, Case Western, WPI, Purdue and waiting to hear from Lehigh, RPI, and Va Tech.
He doesn’t have any one school that “spoke” to him when we toured (we’ve visited all but Purdue). Right now he’s sort of got a top three (Pitt, Case, Lehigh) with WPI a somewhat distant fourth (the whole “what if I don’t want to be an engineer” thing). Any suggestions for how I can help him figure out which of those might be the best fit?
Thank you! (Also to know, I’m a poli-sci person, I know nothing about engineering, recruiting for jobs, life paths etc. So I am totally unable to help him visualize if one school would better position him than another in that regard.)