<p>I do not want anybody to suffer,and they can join any fraternity except one. It would be a little long story why, but regarding any problems there is no way to solve them directly with that fraternity because there is no there open communication. I have a plan on starting a website and as well write review about them on yelp. Any other ideas?</p>
<p>I have no physical proof against them so I would explain greek council or anything and besides what they are doing evil I think is not illegal. They discriminate based on but not limited to, but they do so in discretion ... your nationality, accent, sexual orientation. And as I mentioned there is no open communication with any members, including officers, recruiters. They will lie straight to you straight to your eyes and not care about you at all.</p>
<p>A little detail about fraternity: they are still colony, not chapter. Many of the members are biased republicans affiliated with christian right (well I am moderate republican, but not like Bush). Although my school is mostly left. One time they got suspended for alcohol violation policy. Not long time ago it got lifted.</p>
<p>From my personal experience, they not only not welcomed me but also prevented me from considering and joing other fraternities, because they were wasting my time, only them to tell me at the end, when their ban got lifted that I never been considered straight from president contacting me by email in not fair manner.</p>
<p>A fraternity a bit arrogant? No Way! It’s not called discriminating against people, they just don’t want certain people to become a part of their fraternity. No one will not join a fraternity because you write something on yelp.</p>
<p>you’re wrong jrt336. it is discrimination but what they do is not necessarily illegal. They are new colony and they have no experience. From my personal experience I had no problem with other fraternities and if not that one I would be long time ago a part of any. And in regard to their attitude, since they are not nice and kind to everyone, they will not go too far. In comparison, just like in any big company at work in the real world. Once people turn off some people against them, they loose opportunities and burn bridges. Attitude is everything.</p>
<p>You risk getting running into problems with slander. You say don’t have any proof; you might want to wait until you get proof or at least more people who can back up your claim.</p>
<p>At the very least, you the run the risk of coming across as a loon. </p>
<p>If this fraternity really is as you say they are, then anyone who pledges will probably figure it out on their own.</p>
<p>What they will figure out on their own? I am sure that at least not my experience being probably more meaningful than their discrimination of certain people. But for me what they all do is wrong. Even the fact they just shut you up and, your concern does not matter even though it may be valid and very important ; and they hope the problems will go away alone. The problems don’t age well! The fraternity like that should not exist on campus and risk getting new freshmen or transfers into unpleasant experience or practices with them.</p>
<p>no integrity (lying) and preventing me from considering and joining other fraternity (conspiracy) through lie.</p>
<p>blowing someone off and holding in false hope only to find out never been considered. The suspension widow period than prevented them from recruiting is no excuse. I am not happy telling them too late.</p>
<p>They need to little pay for something. 50% is their own fault that they way I live now the food has no flavor. I have no happiness in my life, always worried about my life, its like I am not in peace!!! Thanks a lot to some of these bastards!!!</p>
<p>I do this and guess what? I take psychodynamic theraphy in which I have learned that the reason for me is hard to fit into society is because I am outsider, from different culture, nationality and have foreign accent. I am just like “white chineese” among americans who majority are of european descent. Should I try to hang out around my peple? Sure the only thing it is hard to find such, because majority of them are born americans or came over jere when they were very young. So it does not matter.I hate being second class citizen! I do not not see any other solution to that than just cover up my real identity when I meet new people before I get to know them better.</p>
<p>How exactly do you cover up the fact that you’re not a native?</p>
<p>Seriously, this frat is the least of your problems. You probably started weirding them out, like you’ve managed to do here in a much shorter time, so they gave you the boot. I don’t blame them.</p>
<p>I would advise you to let it go. It is very difficult to prove that they have discriminatory policies. You say they have wasted your time, but pursuing this would waste even more of your time.
I know it sucks. Because even if you get them shut down (highly unlikely), you still wouldn’t be in a fraternity (what you wanted).
Consider it a good thing. Now you can go out and find a fraternity which is better for you. Good luck.</p>
<p>It did not happen with another fraternity before them. But I left one before initiation when I was not ready then later I moved my interest for another, unfortunatly them being one. But seriously they aren’t my biggest problem. My biggest problem is loneliness. It would most likely not happen if they were not waisting my time and therefore I would be already in another. Therefore I need to give them some small lesson. They’re having too much luck! They need to learn the hard way. I learned hard way a lot of things so why they can’t. I was being nice guy before. It never worked, sooner or later that my attitude took revenge on me. There are more things to story that would make it clear why I feel so angry about everuthing going on my life, but it would take to write a book.</p>
<p>Sometimes when I feel really down because of all of that I think about killing myself! no friends, no family, no parents!!! My family still live but they never care if I am happy. At least they are right about one thing. No one likes immigrants! This all situation confirm it.</p>