<p>Unless he has an anger management issue I’m not sure why he would want to transfer. Presumably he can steer clear of this girl and not do anything that would cause the suspension to change from defer. If anything it’s the sword of Damocles and it would cause him to be thoughtful as a person the next three years. As a parent I think I could stomach that outcome. Perhaps she did harass him into him losing his temper, but if he has no evidence then he’s learned a large life lesson and when he graduates there is no harm no foul as long as he has written guarantee that it won’t be reflected in his transcript or carry into his future endeavors. </p>