We were exchanging emails about a lost assignment and how it dropped my grade, so I was lucky that he found my assignment and gave me credit for it. My grade is now 2 points away from becoming and A so I emailed him back a thank you for finding the assignment and asked if there was anything I could do to fix my grade. I honestly feel like this response was very rude and I don’t know what to write back.
"Hi Lizzy,
I understand your predicament.
But
If I give you the extra chance now- then does that mean I should also offer it to the other 29 students in class?"
As a college instructor myself I can tell you that I get the same email from at least one or two students in every class and I basically respond the same way. I can’t allow one person to do something extra to improve their grade if I don’t allow everyone the same opportunity. I would say thank you to your professor and be super polite. You just never know if the professor will end up curving the grades or if you will have him again.
I am sympathetic to your situation, I remember sending a similar note to a professor when I was in college and being annoyed when she ignored me.
It was a clean and respectful blank wall for a reason: too much explanation just leaves edges for students to hang excuses on. Just assume good intent, don’t go looking for offenses, this isn’t high school, etc, etc etc and remember to be thankful that your missing paper was found and made it on to the books before the end of the semester.