<p>I had a really bad break up yesterday. The girl was my world, but she didn't want to be with me anymore. If anyone of you has an experience, please tell me how to get her back. I'm heartbroken and would like to know.
thank you</p>
<p>85 looks and no comments. bump!</p>
<p>Life moves on. So should you.</p>
<p>Lol, if she doesn’t want you, she probably doesn’t want you.</p>
<p>Walk away confident that not a single fuark was given that day</p>
<p>I understand… Do whatever you did to win her over in the first place? I mean, everyone’s different. But if there’s another guy, this could be difficult… And hey, make her listen to the song Breakeven by The Script, and the song Sleepwalker by Flyleaf (one of my favorite songs ever). Pull the whole “I can change” act, and ask her what went wrong, but when she tells you and you disagree, tell her you don’t understand, and ask her for an explanation. Girls like it when they think guys need to understand what they’re saying, makes them feel we think it’s important, and that they’re important. That’s my advice. Talk to her about it, be real, offer to change, and do whatever you did in the beginning to win her. Don’t let this effect your behavior though, she needs to know that you’re still you, because it was you she was dating, not whoever you may act like after she dumped you. Good luck!</p>
<p>Find someone else. Being desperate isn’t going to make her want you. If you meet someone else either she’ll be jealous or she won’t. If she’s not jealous she’s completely over you and you have no chance. If she is jealous that doesn’t necessarily mean she wants you back (she might just get mad because she still thinks of you as hers even though she doesn’t actually want you) but there is a small possibility. But my advice is just to get over her. There are billions of other girls in the world and I know it doesn’t seem like it now but there are other girls who will be “your world”. There aren’t any other girls that are going to be exactly the same as her but you’re going to have relationships that are just as good if not better (hopefully better) and you’ll never meet them if you waste your time trying to get back with a girl that it’ll probably never happen with.</p>
<p>Note: I’m not saying you should go out and screw the entire girls swim team because there are enough guys like that out there. Be a nice guy because we definitely need more of those.</p>
<p>Oh poor Romeo, oh Romeo
His heart thou borketh on thy love on a girl name Rosaline
I wonder how he will now that he is -…
What is that?
I see that he is in love with a woman name Juliet
As we see now, nothing lost nothing gained…</p>
<p>You guys… don;t understand. I really like her, and we had a real connection over the time. The question is, should I wait for a while before talking to her again? or should I call her tonight?
And do people date their exs back all the time? How should I?</p>
<p>King get over it…</p>
<p>Wanting a girl that doesn’t like you back will have a bad relationship; it could just be a pause for now that she wants. If not, I’d suggest to fine another girl who likes you for who you are.</p>
<p>I would try to be friends with her first, and then gradually get her to trust you again. That would be your best chance to get back together with her.(I’m a girl btw)</p>
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<p>Baha, did you read my post? The understanding one that starts with “I understand…”? Hmm, I’d call her tonight. If she hangs up on you though, leave her alone for the rest of the night. If she doesn’t answer, just send one text and if she doesn’t respond or responds angrily, leave her alone for the rest of the night. That’s what I’d do, I suppose. I truly do wish you the best… And hey, I know what it’s like to care for someone more than she cares for you… Good luck, I mean it, my friend…</p>
<p>@EliK: have you been in the same situation? and what did you do?
@Hatshepsut: have you been in the same situation? and what would you do to receive him back?</p>
<p>Take it from someone 55 years old, who has a lot of experience in the dating world.</p>
<p>You will probably have many girlfriends before you finally marry.</p>
<p>When one door closes, another one opens.</p>
<p>We have all been in your shoes.</p>
<p>Perhaps you have heard that country song where the guy first starts singing sadly about his girlfriend who broke up with him, but then surprises you and starts singing happily about the young hot chick he is now dating in her place.</p>
<p>I know you will want to do silly things like writing her notes and stuff like that. Try not to.</p>
<p>If SHE calls you, THEN you have a chance. But there is no point in calling her. </p>
<p>At your age, you should be playing the field anyway.</p>
<p>I have had a number of cases where the girl broke up with me, but then she called me. If that happens, you will be sitting pretty. If she doesn’t eventually wind up calling you, then she probably has found someone new. </p>
<p>This is not to minimize your hurt. I was devestated a couple times in my life by girls, but as another response says: “life goes on”.</p>
<p>If she leaves, then you two are most likely not fit for each other. Move on, try dating some other girls. If anything, your ex may get jealous, but I’m definitely not supporting dating other girls to make your ex jealous. That’s just wrong.</p>
<p>I haven’t been in the same “exact” situation (mine was muchhhh more comolicated to explain lol), but for most intents and purposes, yeah, I have been, because I had to use the same advice I’m giving. I fixed what was wrong later that day… I’m not sure what the context of your relationship is, but my girlfriend’s focused on permanence (the “if I wouldn’t marry you, I won’t date you” type), so I had to show her that whatever happened that shouldn’t have was a fluke and that there was nothing to make a permanent relationship (or any relationship) not viable or desirable. Alot of this was listening to what she said and genuinely understanding, and alot of this was listening and just telling her I understood her point, even if that wasn’t really the case… Like I said, girls want to know you’re listening and that you value what they have to say, so make sure she knows that you “understand,” and it helps if at some point you act as if you’ve come to a realization of something, seeing something in a new way, her way, even if it’s something small. Like I said, I did this in the same day, so I think there’s no harm in trying tonight, but if she pushes, don’t push back. In these situations, you are your own worst enemy, so you really have to be careful… By the way, many of us more intelligent people try to take past words and actions and use it to make points… Most girls aren’t like this, and will just tell you that you (and your point) are wrong, regardless of if that’s the case or not, so this doesn’t really help. My advice: avoid making points unless they’re genuinely insightful. I hope this helps… I don’t know your relationship, only you do, but I think this should help you, at least a little.</p>
<p>You say she is your life, but did you do something that prompted the breakup? Maybe she isn’t as important to you as you thought/think? </p>
<p>Or is she?</p>
<p>If she is, you need to let her know you’re truly sorry for whatever happened, honestly that’s all you can do. Well maybe do something sweet for her? But apologizing is a great place to start. Realize that the decision is ultimately hers, but do what you can to get closure 
Maybe after she has some time to cool down things will get better? I’m sorry about this btw, and if you need to talk you can pm me at any time. Good luck!!</p>
<p>Hey KingCat,</p>
<p>I totally understand what you are going through. My boyfriend of 5 years broke up with me saying he “wanted to enjoy being single while he can” I tried so hard to get him back, I would stay up all night looking at his FaceBook, texting him, calling him, all the while pushing him away!</p>
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<p>Wishing you all the best!</p>
<p>Brooke</p>
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<p>good general advice. for everyone. :]
(whenever people ask for advice on relationship matters, I always give them this site haha)</p>
<p>Well, why did she break up with you in the first place? Seems like that would be a useful clue.</p>
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