<p>I like a boy at my school, but he doesn't seem to notice. How can I attract his attention? And how can I ask him out? I know that it is a guy who usually asks a girl out, but I can't just wait for him to notice that I care for him. What should I do? And if you were a guy, would you go out with a girl who asked you out? Even though you have always thought of her as a friend? Do you think going out with another guy in order to make him jealous will help?</p>
<p>i wouldnt ask him out... get him alone somewhere and tell him or show him how you feel.</p>
<p>What do you think of telling him that I like him in front of his friends? Is it better to get him alone?</p>
<p>Boys are very immature at young ages - getting him alone somewhere(maybe a date?) is necessary. That way he wont be pressured by his friends. More than anything i would just try to become his good friend and flirt with him before you go ahead and ask him out.</p>
<p>Don't rush into thing because it just seems like you're falling heads-ver-heels for a guy you barely even know. I wouldn't try randomly approaching him and asking him out if you guys aren't acquanited, but rather, try to get close to him through classes/clubs/school activities.</p>
<p>Personally, I would go out with a girl(especially a good-looking one) who asked me out, but probably not for the right reasons. My male instinct would tell me to take advantage of the situation by just being invovled with her physically, therefore a long-term committment is doubtful to emerge.</p>
<p>Generally, girls who seduce guys or captivate them with their charm/intellect are the ones that are able to find stable relationships. Guys truly want to know that there's more mystery and allure to a female than just "OMG look at how big her melons are!!!", etc.</p>
<p>Later days.</p>
<p>I'm thinking of telling him the truth at the graduation. (I'm a senior now) because I don't think I can bear the pressure after telling him how I feel during school days. I can't just go and tell him, "Hey, I love you."</p>
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<p>Haha.. This is wonderful advice, especially the "showing" part.</p>
<p>Have you guys ever accepted/turned down a girl who asked you out?</p>
<p>I accepted once...though she was kind of indirect about it. It's senior year already, so why don't you just move on instead of trying to forge a last-minute relationship??? Are you sure you're experiencing feelings of love instead of lust??? PM me and we can tal kabout it if you are uncomfortable about discusssing this issue on a public forum.</p>
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<p>Ha, nice one. You saw the opening and went right in.</p>
<p>sometimes i wonder what the real point of saying i like you is. it's odd, really. hey, i like you....now what? hmm....i probably said that because i dont have a nerve to say it :D</p>
<p>what do you mean by "i probably said that because i dont have a nerve to say it." You've got to have a nerve to say that.</p>
<p>Good girl its senior year. Telling the kid at graduation wont solve anything. Its time to be charismatic and attractive. Go after what you want. Just do it in a way that wont hurt you too much(a simple "we should hang out sometime" would be adequate...).</p>
<p>I think so. Hanging out makes more sense than asking out at this point. I don't know what else to do. I feel so stupid!</p>
<p>Yeah GoodGirl, just calm down a bit and don't rush it because he'll be freaked out "Hey ___, I really love you, wanna hang out?"
That would make it awkard from the beginning</p>
<p>"You seem desperate enough, wanna go out with me and forget that</p>
<p>how does this guy get away with that sn?</p>
<p>hello, my name is Bick and that's my nick name "BIG DICK"</p>
<p>lolz its soo funny
it'd make more sense if your name was Dick and your nick name was Big Dick .. and then the "with a" makes it sound</p>
<p>i'm cheating on my girlfriend Urm because she is stupid and she cheats on me as well</p>