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i don’t think it’s that anyone finds it a “sexy idea”…it’s more like, “i’m drunk and want it; and the roomie’s asleep…ah, what the hell…”</p>
<p>when i wrote “sexy”, i was envisioning a scenario like well, the roommate’s awake, and i’m super-horny, almost blackout drunk, and have basically no inhibitions right now, and actually it’s kinda hot that the roommate will know what’s going on and might even be watching.</p>
<p>although what you said is likely more plausible.</p>
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could be, but naturally i wouldn’t know from personal experience or anything…ahem…</p>
<p>haha</p>
<p>Last semester I lived in a 3 man apartment and one my friends + his girlfriend were so loud that you could here it even with through the wall anyway. The point is, sex is not that weird IMO. It’s funny, if anything else. And most mornings I wake up I end up feeling weird or awkward anyway - lol.</p>
<p>Also, you are a girl, so who knows what is going through your head half the time. As for me, a guy, if I actually bring a hot girl back to my room, who wants to have sex with me, you can be sure <em>I’m</em> not the one who’s going to stop things because my roommate is there. If she doesn’t care, you can be SURE I dont’ care. Why waste the opportunity?</p>
<p>Sex is a natural thing IMO. I’ve come to the point where I can be naked in front of just about anyone and not care, including sex.</p>
<p>The only thing I haven’t been able to overcome is my dislike of being naked or really opening up at all to older family members (parents and up). </p>
<p>If only everyone could have that type of mindset; the world would be so much better! This is coming from someone who used to be an extreme prude when he was younger lol.</p>
<p>I’d actually never heard the term “sexile” before people started throwing it around here. Most of the people who are sexually active that I know have singles, so it doesn’t even matter.</p>
<p>…or they do it in the Common Room or the TV Lounge. Yeaaah.</p>