<p>This kid loves sports and is big into school spirit but not into drinking. I know these things can change but wondering how a kid like this would fit in. Has literally not been in a "party" situation during hs because the group of friends is substance-free and fairly proud of it. Very open to other people, and gets along with everyone, just pretty focused on his academics, ECs, music and sports so far.</p>
<p>I’m a non-drinker as well, and parties just aren’t my thing. It’s not a problem! I generally stay in on the weekends, whether it be to work on schoolwork or to watch movies with some friends, and I’ve never felt out of place. There’s plenty of people on both sides of the spectrum. There is SO much to do and so much to be involved in, and the school spirit here really is amazing. Being a non-drinker definitely not something that should stop someone from coming to Notre Dame.</p>
<p>I agree with Silenr, there are lots of things for those who don’t want to go out and drink and party.</p>
<p>In addition, I think people are very non-judgmental at events where alcohol is present. Generally speaking, you may be offered alcohol, but if you say, “No thank you,” nobody is going to try to pressure you to drink.</p>
<p>There’s no pressure to drink at ND. In fact, recent surveys have shown the the MAJORITY of underage college students don’t drink. There’s a lot going on at Notre Dame, especially at weekends. Sporting events, events hosted by the Student Union Board, and a lot of other things that don’t involve drinking. Like someone else mentioned, even just hanging out and watching a movie with friends is a viable option.</p>
<p>My son is a junior at ND and just turned 21 last October. Yes, I know everyone rolls their eyes when I tell them that didn’t drink until he turned 21. It’s all about confidence in yourself that you are doing what you feel is right for you. He got into a great group of guys who drink, but he never judged them and they respected his decision. He does partake now, but responsibly. Choose your friends wisely and remain true to yourself. </p>