<p>Baelor, that may be true and I respect your decision. I am also not trying to be combative (or even persausive) by any means, I’m just exploring the possibilities. That does not mean that your wife has never had premarital sex. What if she had been married previously? What if she had been raped? What if she had had premarital sex, but loves you and knows you wouldn’t marry a woman who had (assuming that’s a criteria for you)? What if you divorce and remarry? While I’m not pushing the vaccine to this extent, sometimes it helps to remember life doesn’t always go as planned.</p>