<p>Some of these comments are so wise. I especially loved the “vat of brattiness” My own D who is about to turn 20 has only very recently started to shed her brattiness about money, frugality, and our specific family circumstances. She now appreciates that we are paying her way(she has a 1/2 scholarship) without loans. Girls mature slightly sooner than boys, so hopefully your day will come!</p>
<p>I can see the light at the end of the tunnel and hope it’s not an oncoming train…</p>