<p>Apologies, I have not read the entire thread, so hope this is not redundant.</p>
<p>I am a bit surprised that your son has picked up some feelings of entitlement. I am guessing that because he had a full tuition scholarship that perhaps he justified in “expecting” his other expenses to be paid. Our younger s has a full tuition scholarship and does tend to justify what we may consider unnecessary expenses with his “but I have a scholarship” mantra. We give him a monthly allowance and he had to make his purchases from what we gave him. He would still have a talent for justifying our paying for something, and when he is home we do pay, but a simple " you can pay for that with your funds" should suffice. Good luck.</p>