<p>^unless you have reading comprehension problems, you’ll see that i already provided for the possibility that you had a job and can handle work. </p>
<p>you say you love to learn so you won’t mind unnecessary work? let’s hope that turns out true for you. i know from my experience and many of my classmates’ experiences that having lots of unnecessary work can actually be very detrimental to one’s love of learning. a lot of people are burnt out after high school after doing a ton of unnecessary work all 4 years and usually for 3 years before that in middle school. a lot of people want a little break from that in college, a chance to develop other aspects of oneself besides just their brain. believe it or not, there are plenty of other skills you need to be successful in the world besides a lot of knowledge or a strong work ethic. while these things are important, they are not be-all-end-alls. you also need social skills; you need connections; you need practical training in your chosen field; you need to have time to get internships; you can benefit highly from joining groups and expanding your interests/horizons, etc. </p>
<p>“Sure I’m not used to it. But I’m going to college for the classes, not for the social life. Thankfully they coexist quite peacefully.”</p>
<p>doesn’t really sound like it will at stanford. besides i never said i was going for the social life. i don’t drink, party, do drugs, nada and am not going to start in college. when i say i want a balanced life, it’s not about “social life” in the traditional sense, but in the sense that i mentioned above: the chance to develop social skills, interests, get an internship, learn about my craft, make connections, and yeah you know i WOULD like to have a little fun in college too. sue me.</p>
<p>“Even when that means long hours in front of a text book or problem set”</p>
<p>i still don’t get how you would know. you’ve never done either of those, right? so you can only HOPE you won’t mind the workload. </p>
<p>“Do I HAVE to work 25 hours per week? No, but I want to have the internet, nice clothes, and a private education. That’s where we differ altogether.”</p>
<p>so your work is NOT unnecessary. it’s getting you something (internet, nice clothes, private education). would you choose to be a cashier for 25 hours a week if you weren’t getting paid? highly doubtful. it seems you don’t just enjoy work for the sake of work or because you enjoy unnecessary work. it’s always a means to another end. like it is for the great majority of people. maybe in regards to unnecessary work at stanford, for you it’s just “the joy of learning”. a nice idea, sure, but impractical in our current job market. i want to go to college for the joy of learning too, but not JUST that. like i’ve said many times before, i want the college i choose to train me for my career and open doors for me in that career afterwards. stanford won’t do that for MY career as a filmmaker. i don’t have the money or time to throw around on a college that won’t provide me at least that. maybe you do; maybe you can go to college just to learn, to hell with a practical career afterwards! if so, you’re in an enviable position. </p>
<p>OR maybe you are one of those people for whom stanford WOULD provide practical career training AND post-grad connections. then it would make sense. but don’t fault me for not wanting to go to a really difficult school that doesn’t offer me the major i want OR post-grad connections in my field when i could go to a school that offers me both AND more free time to pursue my other interests/internships/make friends/etc.</p>