<p>Refraining from using that recently-banned word here, I will simply say that CesarC seems to have little interest in intelligent discussion of the issues so, I will respond to his reprehensible spew about what a “gift” my children’s struggles have been for them, and then I’m out of this thread.</p>
<p>First, I would not wish the tormented, abusive educational experience my children faced at the hands of adults who were supposed to be educators on anyone’s child. For anyone to suggest that a gifted LD child is at any sort of advantage in any classroom that that I have ever know of is ludicrous. The hatred and complete lack of understanding that children with LDs often face in classrooms in this country is appalling. “Twice Exceptional Children” (ridiculous moniker, if you ask me) are often at higher risk than those in standard or Special Ed classrooms because (as we were told by more than a few teachers along the way), gifted teachers frequently seek GT certifications so that they can teach the “easy kids” and don’t have to deal with kids who need extra time, need to use a computer instead of writing by hand (21st Century, anyone?), etc. Many (a slight majority, in our experience) want to teach only the kids who can paper-push at mach-speed, and make them look good as teachers with minimum effort. We were told by numerous teachers along the way that gifted LD students do not belong in their gifted classrooms. </p>
<p>So, what do you do with high-achieving (outside of handwritten work), super-high IQ kids who simply can’t write by hand? Do you completely discount that they know enough to teach the class themselves, but aren’t really excited about the prospect of going to college at age 10? </p>
<p>I’d love to know what sots of torture OP was bearing on the many mornings my kid was called up in front of his third grade class so the teacher could explain all of the reasons why my son (who was always the slowest on daily, handwritten timed math quizzes) was “stupid” and made “stupid mistakes” on timed math (her words, as repeatedly confirmed by parent volunteers in the classroom). </p>
<p>I wonder what horrid forms of torture OPs children were experiencing when my 6th grader was told by his teacher to just pee in his pants at his desk because he wasn’t leaving the classroom to go the bathroom until he completed a handwritten art project (making a picture using exactly 100 words) that he had already worked on for hours (and that, once again, he should have never been forced to do in the first place)? </p>
<p>What sort of games were OPs poor, mistreated kids playing on the playground when my sons were denied recess privileges for weeks on end because they couldn’t finish their handwritten work that they shouldn’t have even been required to do by hand, per their accommodations? </p>
<p>Oh yeah, that’s right. My kids were just living the good life with their high IQs and their teachers who despised them, not because they were discipline problems (because they weren’t), but because allowing them to use a computer in a 21st Century classroom or letting them complete unfinished work at home gave them an unfair advantage over other kids in the class. Don’t even get me started on high school. To tell the tales … there are no words to do that horrendous experience justice.</p>
<p>OP is living in an alternate universe. His lack of knowledge and understanding of the lives of gifted LD kids is so appalling that I just can’t even discuss it any further. As whiney as he is about every perceived injustice he experiences in his very small world, he certainly has little empathy or even ability to consider that other people might face injustices, too. As we say in the south, “Bless his little heart.”</p>