<p>Nester, I choose that title because it stands for both. Thank you for that information. I will be sure to look into that.</p>
<p>munchkin, I don’t really understand how weddings work, because in my family, we do this Chinese/Vietnamese hybrid styled wedding. I haven’t been to many of them to observe that.</p>
<p>I am the oldest child; I have two younger brothers. The elder of the two brothers feels the same way I do about our parents, but he’s a bit more passive about it. He eventually found a group of (Asian) friends to support him, so he’s much happier now. The youngest brother is the polar opposite of us… he’s always happy, smiling, and positive. Then again, it helps to be male, the last born, and have the entire extended family already out of poverty.</p>
<p>nysmile, thanks. :)</p>