<p>but I don't feel too bad about it now. (it was going to be a nice ceremony - we were not required to wear anything particular and it's only 2 hours long, etc.) </p>
<p>I had a <em>very</em> detailed dream of my graduation. It was even at the right venue and everything. And my dead grandmother was there! (though when I realized she was dead she started floating up out of her seat - to heaven maybe :)). And there were also kids from my middle school there, oddly enough, whom I talked to, in addition to my classmates. And I asked how someone's mom was (whom I had known had cancer) and he said she had recovered! It was just the most happy graduation I could ever imagine (and I would rather not spoil it, or dilute it, with memories from a real one).</p>
<p>Your dream will stay intact regardless of if you go to graduation or not. But a dream will never be the same as the real thing. So take that leap of faith and go to graduation!</p>
<p>it turns out you can do a lot of things people would have you believe you couldn’t. You also, maybe paradoxically, can’t do many of the things people would have you believe you could (like be the president, for example).</p>
<p>People only make you believe you can do the things that they want you to believe you think you can do.</p>
<p>You can get philosophical about it, but the fact is, it is a good experience that you will regret you missed out on. You really want to tell people you skipped your high school graduation because you didn’t feel like going?</p>