<p>ctymom - that is truly shocking. I'm so glad the outcome wasn't worse. And I don't think you were necessarily mistaken to extend that generous offer to two freshmen - it was a sensitive response to the problem (though - for the violent young man in question - apparently futile and certainly undeserved). The Samaritan probably appreciated the gesture, at any rate.</p>
<p>My kids become angry when friends pressure them to share homework. They refuse, but have taken some abuse for it.</p>