<p>As a nation we see many of our youth struggling with substance abuse, gangs, dropping out of school, teen pregnancy, crime. Some of our leaders blame 'failing schools' for these problems, but we know better. Families are failing to love and take care of their children for whatever reason, poverty, substance abuse, incarceration, etc. The truth is that NCLB is underfunded and full of empty promises as evidenced by the new silver bullet 'Pell Grants for Kids.' Give me a break! First, we drastically cut Pell Grants for university students then give them to primary students, in Washington, D.C., no less! If our government really wants to make a difference they should mandate parenting classes for families of struggling students at the first sign of trouble. Of course, this is the opposite end of the spectrum for this discussion, but I just had share my POV on this recent lunacy.</p>
<p>My parenting philosophy is that one knocks themselves out for their kids from the minute they're born (even before that). Love, nurture, teach, guide, feed, protect, counsel, support them so that the child will grow and thrive physically, emotionally, spiritually and will one day be able to successfully navigate life using the self-confidence, skills and wisdom they gleaned from either their parents or other loving adults in their world. In other words, my job as a parent was to gradually release control over my child as she became more capable of solving increasingly more complex problems independently. Was that easy to do? No, but it was necessary. </p>
<p>Did we spend the first day of high school on campus with our kids? Do families accompany their enlistees to Great Lakes or Parris Island and tour the facilities? Then why should induction day at a military academy be any different? This is a solemn and serious event for the appointees to be processed and take the oath as young adults. Will there be other occasions for families to tour the historic campus and receive the SAME briefings given on I-Day? Yes, in years past expanded briefings that included I-Day information were given again at PPW. In fact, much MORE information is given at PPW. Do the midshipmen reaffirm their oath after Plebe Summer? Yes, at PPW and again when they sign their two for seven papers at the beginning of 2nd class year. </p>
<p>Blame it on our Teutonic/Germanic DNA, but my18 year-old appointee wanted to fly 3,000 miles to BWI and take care of business on her own. Seemed appropriate and reasonable to me so I respected her wishes. We have a great relationship and I was proud, not hurt by her choice. No regrets. After all, this young woman had been to Washington, D.C., on numerous occasions, seen much of the world with her family, attended Summer Seminar, and just renewed her passport for the fourth time. At least 10 other unaccompanied USNA victims were on the same flight. In fact, one of the girls was the third child in her family to attend USNA and her parents (former naval aviator dad) didn't go to any of the three I-Days, though they could well afford to.</p>
<p>I think it would be reasonable to close the Yard to the public on I-Day and run shuttles between BWI on I-Day minus one for those flying in; those arriving by car could be dropped off at the Navy Marine Corps Stadium and take the shuttle to Alumni Hall.</p>
<p>Don't blame me if this comes to pass. Excuse me while I don my Kevlar vest and helmet! :)</p>