<p>Why do these kids in my class work hard and then complain about it? I mean is it worth all the work? I mean they always go fml this and that. But they always say they are going to fail and test and end up doing the best. They always complain. But if they hate it why kill themselves. Do they delude themselves thinking they can do what they want? Just like the kids here learn that not everyone gets in HYP and it's a reach for everyone.</p>
<p>I understand what you mean. There are a few kids in each of my classes that do that.</p>
<p>I think that it’s relevant to expectations. By stating that they are going to fail a test, they possess no pressure, thus enabling them to solely succeed beyond their statement. It is also beneficial for their self-esteem. They complain because the process itself is not appealing. However, their ideal outcome exceeds their original expectations, thus ensuring that the benefits associated with the tasks themselves outweigh the negatives associated with them.</p>
<p>Half of the kids in my HS were like that… and I have to confess I’m like that too sometimes. It’s the type of complaint that they feel like they have to make so they’re not considered nerds or something like that. IDK… but a good point. The complain for the sake of complaining, not to make a point.</p>
<p>I have tons of kids in my classes that do this and I have to admit that I am one of them sometimes, especially when I don’t study. I think it’s a way to feel better: have lower expectations so you are pleasantly surprised when you do well. This translates over to life as well. Low expectations means that anything better than the worst thing will make you happy.</p>
<p>Most oddly, I agree with the originators’ opinion to of the most fullest extent.</p>
<p>Nice responses. Understanding their mentally better.</p>
<p>They are all human beings afterall. Like you.</p>
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<p>sup LGR</p>
<p>amg halp I’m going to be @1 poster!! :O</p>