<p>Sorry! Long post, but please bear with me.</p>
<p>So, I am not a parent but I feel as though posting in the parents forum will give me the most helpful feedback since my own parents don't feel like having this conversation with me. </p>
<p>Here is the issue:</p>
<p>Like many students I decided to apply to many colleges across the east coast, many of them "Top 50" schools. After being rejected by most, waitlisted by a few, and admitted to some, I was left to choose between the following: NYU, Villanova University (PA), Saint Joseph's University (PA), and Rutgers University (New Brunswick, NJ). </p>
<p>Of these choices NYU was my top. I visited, fell in love, and had my heart set on attending before I was even admitted. But then, reality set in. At 65K a year, with about 5K in grants, there was no way that I could attend NYU without being completely destitute upon graduating.</p>
<p>(Due to a very smart savings plan put together by my mother and father, I have enough money to pay for four years of college, and maybe some grad school w/o having to take out loans).</p>
<p>So, I finally had to choose between Villanova and Saint Joseph's. Saint Joe's offered me 2 four year scholarships which would have made my COA appx. 30K a year. Villanova originally gave me a small grant, but increased it once I showed them my offer from Saint Joe's so my COA would be roughly 40K a year.</p>
<p>In the Philadelphia area people have this misconception that Villanova is Ivy caliber (it's not, but people still view it that way) so I chose Villanova over Saint Joe's because of the "prestige" of its name. </p>
<p>I am currently regretting my decision. I like it here at Villanova but the fact that I am paying 40K a year for a name (and one that isn't easily recognized by those who aren't from the Philly area) is starting to seem ridiculous to me. I often teeter between the belief that I should have either a) gone to NYU and sacrificed any money that I would have had because it actually IS prestigious and spending the money might seem justifiable or b) I should have gone to Saint Joe's despite its seeming irrelevance because at least I wouldn't feel as though I am wasting a ton of money.</p>
<p>I just really don't know what to do at this point in my life. I was considering transferring but if I were to go to a private college, they are unlikely to give me any more aid than Villanova is (and public colleges in this area are not much cheaper). Because I am a NJ resident I was giving thought to transferring to Rutgers because I would qualify for in-state tuition and that would be the cheapest out of any of my options. But, I feel as though doing that would be selling myself short. Where I am from it is not considered a huge achievement to get into Rutgers.</p>
<p>I guess my question is (and thank you if you have continued reading up until this point) what do you think would be the smartest decision for me to make? Should I stick it out at Villanova and not transfer to a mediocre school just because it is cheaper? Is saving as much money as possible a higher priority? Or should I reevaluate everything all together and just transfer to NYU?</p>
<p>Any advice would be greatly appreciated!</p>