I don't understand can find dates easily at CAL, but I can't...

<p>Why everyone seems to find dates easily in college?</p>

<p>I recently graudated from CAL. Whenever I walk/walked around the campus, expecially around Asian ghetto, there are always tons of students who are/were dating...however, I went though CAL without having a date at all...pretty sad.
I'm just wondering where do those students generally find dates? Do you have to join a student club or go to a party or something?? Or you just need to be good-looking?</p>