<p>The social aspect of my college experience has gotten me extremely depressed, sometimes I even want to just drop out. I go to a university that's very community-oriented, basically a residential campus, and I thought that commuting wasn't going to be too bad, but I was wrong. I feel so disconnected from my school because all I do is go to class and then go home. I find it impossible to make friends as a commuter because honestly who cares to befriend a commuter when you have friends you will see more often in your dorms. I don't see how joining clubs or groups will help either because even then everyone knows each other through dorming. It's too late for me to apply for housing next year so now I am seeing another depressing year of school. I really hate college and I am beginning to think that it serves no purpose in my life, but waste my money.</p>
<p>
</p>
<p>This would be the root of your problems. If you haven’t even tried, then of course you’re not going to have a desirable outcome. </p>
<p>I attended a similar college (small, residential setting) and I also commuted. I didn’t particularly care about making friends since I worked full time and just didn’t feel the need - but I knew other commuters who did just fine. Some commuters will group up and car pool together since they have a common bond (is there a commuter club or lounge at your school? If not, try to start one). When I did attempt to join clubs, I found that most of the members were very excited to have new members and did want to get to know you - after all, if there were no members there would be no club, so new memberships are important and they want you to stay, usually. </p>
<p>Joining study groups is good because it gives you all a common topic to talk about, but the conversation will probably stray at time and allow you to get to know each other better. </p>
<p>On-campus jobs (work-study) might help you get to know other students. </p>
<p>If the only purpose for college in your life is to serve your social needs, then withdraw and get a full-time job. College is not just about making friends, but learning new skills and pursuing a career. You need a balance of both. If you have no interest in your studies and can’t see yourself pursuing anything after college, then save yourself the time and money.</p>
<p>Talk to the housing office about applying for next year. Surely they at least have a waiting list, because students do cancel.</p>