<p>God damn it. I'm sorry but I have to rant, and I don't know where else to do it ( all my friends are way asleep, its mad late over here, so this is my only outlet right now). For the past year I've had a huge crush on this girl ( lets call her X). So, me and X became really close friends. I quickly learned that it was only X's twin sister ( note the ****ing irony in this) that found me attractive. So my relationship with X remained purely platonic. We hung out a lot. We went to movies etc. So I eventually told X how I felt, and she told me that we were best friends (agh) but just that. Half a year went by, I got accepted into UPenn, and I decided I was gonna go and study econ there. Graduation passed by etc, and we've hung out a lot recently. Today, X's twin sister told me that X has a crush on ME, that now she's the one who can't stop thinking about ME etc ( I still have a crush on X though). So, I approached X ( with the knowledge that she likes me) and I start complimenting her, and I tell her how I've always been into her. And wait...don't fool yourselves, I don't get a nice happy disney ending where I get the girl...no way!.. that would be too perfect for my awful life... she tells me: No, I can't. You're leaving in a month, a month, what would happen after, if only you weren't leaving... So yeah, this sucks.</p>
<p>at least you can rest your head knowing that she was yours.</p>
<p>i was once in your shoes... almost. but i was that other guy. i was the one who wanted to be friends and stuff with her... you know hang out and stuff. but it is i who watched them become friends and it is i who fell by the wayside. she would never consider me a good friend... but she considered him to be a good friend. i was the one who got pushed aside. </p>
<p>you have nothing to be mad about bro.</p>
<p>yeah.. I guess... The thing is, its just so frustrating, to see that when you finally havea shot, she closes the door, not because of a lack of feelings, but because of a stupid time limit.</p>
<p>That really is terrible. BTW you have 1337 posts.</p>
<p>How do you know that she was being honest?</p>
<p>Maybe she lied when she blamed the ensuing geographical seperation for the impossibility of a relationship. Lying because she thought it was a polite and self-irresponsible way to say that she isn't interested in you, as opposed to plainly saying that she isn't interested.</p>
<p>No matter what, the situation seems like it won't have an ending like those in Disney movies. But who knows? Even Shrek had trials with his future wife before getting married. My sympathies. But at least you got a taste of what's it's like to be with someone else. A lot of people haven't even experienced that before.</p>
<p>never take woman too serious,boy</p>
<p>We really need to dedicate a forum for those relationships topics. The topics here used to be about real college life...</p>
<p>I'm sorry. You'll probably find a better girl in college and forget about X. But it is kind of frustrating. I've had similar guy problems.</p>
<p>sounds like you have an awful life.</p>
<p>yeah, go to darfur why don't you.</p>
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<p>Congratulations! Merry Christmas.</p>
<p>Lol. I love these responses.</p>
<p>Seriously, though. Try grouphug.us or something next time. You won't get much here.</p>
<p>ok so u lost the girl... big deal... its a. a high school crush and b. it wouldnt last through college neway, it would suck even if u went ahead with the relationship... shes prolly doing u a favor</p>
<p>you shouldve just gone with the other twin.</p>