<p>I am a first year student and I am having a pretty good time at school so far. One of my biggest qualms, however, is my living situation. I am on an all-girl floor with about 16 other girls. They are cliquey, *****y (even though they think they're nice), pretty much always drunk or talking about being drunk, shallow, stuck-up, and generally unpleasant people. They are all BFFs. I am kind of on the outside of it all. I've been looking elsewhere to find friends because I can't stand these girls. Some people may like the lifestyle of acting like a slut and getting trashed 24/7, but it's not for me. </p>
<p>Although I have friends who live elsewhere, it's especially hard because my floormates people are the ones I'm around the most (as much as I try to stay away from my dorm). Should I switch dorms? Or should I stick it out? What would you do if you were in my situation? Thanks for any and all help or words of advice.</p>
<p>Switch dorms, gossip only gets worse. My freshmen year the girls were in a constant abyss of gossip, and constantly talked about people behind their backs. When they were confronted, they denied they were talking crap.</p>
<p>That is exactly how my floor was last year. I just ignored them. By the time midterms rolled around they mellowed out enough that they weren’t bothering me anymore. I wasn’t in their clique, which meant they didn’t want to be friends with me, but that also meant that I didn’t get roped into their BS either.</p>
<p>Interestingly this year I moved into an all girls house (last year’s building was co-ed but my hall just so happened to be almost all girls) and it’s great, must’ve just been that group of girls last year. Now it’s like I live with dozens of sisters.</p>
<p>It’s still pretty much all freshmen this year, I appear to be one of few upperclassmen who stay in campus housing. But I can attest to the fact that there is a huge maturity gap. I lived with a freshman my junior year and wanted to die.</p>
<p>Hey, always remember…freshmen suck. They haven’t learned the ways of college and certainly are not mature enough to live on their own yet. They will become smarter one day.</p>
<p>Thats kind of why I dont even want a girlfriend. Girls pretend they are nice, but they are really mean usually. And you cant tell if they are being serious. I would tell your RA.</p>