I have an issue on facebook.

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<p>Well, most of you know might know me on college confidential already. I don't want to sound like an elitist all the time, but these things just never stop. I am a Senior in High School and cannot wait to get out of here. I have already decided to attend a university next year and I will enroll there.</p>

<p>On the facebook page, there are two male group moderators who created a facebook forum called "Bayside High School College Call 10" and they invited all the Seniors to join as members to write down the name of the college they will be going to next year in the Fall.</p>

<p>I mentioned St Johns University on the list and then one of them started putting me on the front page of the screen as "Undecided." I am getting sick and tired of this of how people are treating me with disrespect. I told someone on my friend list to take me off the undecided list when I've already chose to attend SJU and then the guy deleted me off his facebook friend list.</p>

<p>I am not interested in creating a violence against something stupid that happened on the internet, but everyone else's name has been put under the name of the college they will attend next year, while mine wasn't.</p>

<p>If I leave the group forum right now, I will feel left out compared to everyone else in the class of 2010 who joined. </p>

<p>I feel like now they won't erase my name from the bottom page anymore of where they wrote me at.</p>

<p>Anyone can tell me what to do from here?</p>

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<p>Honestly, you said so yourself that you can’t wait to get out of high school. Personally I would advise avoiding this altogether by leaving the group and thus, avoiding future complications. Soon you’ll be in college and the people who are being rudeto you now won’t even matter, and this group forum will be unimportant.
Best of luck & Congrats on your acceptance!</p>

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<p>I obviously have about 6 six people from my school who will also attend the same university as me next year. So that calls for me to work hard and transfer out to better schools and I don’t want to be around people who have done things to make me complicated in the social life.</p>

<p>MuTiger12: Why don’t you just **** and go join it and see what happens?</p>

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<p>you should show them not to mess with you</p>

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<p>I got taken off the wrong list. Now I’m just standing there like no one seems to care about me.</p>

<p>To further make it worst, it seems that almost everyone’s name and school got comments and “thumbs up.”</p>

<p>Heck, I don’t even know why I made a facebook account if no one was going to think of me.</p>

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<p>Maybe nobody likes you.</p>

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<p>RacinReaver: I didn’t do anything wrong. All I did was just post the name of my school on the forum and I followed the rules. Then I have people who come over to make me feel bad like that. I have other people who are nice to me, but just not this way often.</p>

<p>I’m sorry if there’s many threads like this before.</p>

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<p>honestly, who’s going to care in like a year…?</p>

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<p>Honestly it doesn’t really matter and you should just ignore it. Those people won’t mean anything at all when college starts.
This is just stupid high school drama and if you don’t want it just ignore it.</p>

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<p>I refuse to believe you have a social life to complicate.</p>

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<p>^Agreed. You’re a loser, just accept it.</p>

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<p>Why are you even bothering about this Facebook group? Join the St. John’s Incoming Class facebook group and move on. At this point in time, it’s time to look forward to a new life in college and not dwell on high school immaturity.</p>

<p>Remove yourself from the high school facebook group and move on.</p>

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<p>Ok then, I’ll try to. Thanks Nysmile.</p>

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<p>Who cares? Why would that bother you?</p>

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<p>Is this the Bayside high school in Bayside, Queens? I live like a block away haha</p>

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<p>St. John’s University is cool.</p>

<p>“… My name’s DMC, in the place to be, I go to St. John’s University, and since kindergarten I acquired the knowledge, and after 12th grade I went straight to college. I’m light skinned, and I live in Queens, I love eatin’ chicken and collared greens…”</p>

<p>They’re my favorite Big East team, even though they have lost their prestige and magic from the 1980’s. Still fun to see them play their conference in the Garden.</p>

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<p>Okay, I really don’t understand what the issue is here? Why would they intentionally not list where you were going? It just sounds like a misunderstanding…</p>

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<p>^ I did, but they just intentionally tried to mess around with me and no one really cared where I am going to college. They didn’t put me under Stj and put me under “undecided.” Now I got off that list and my name is not officially on Stj attendence. </p>

<p>So since no one really cared about my comment on that group forum, no comment-backs or etc… I decided to delete it after all. I feel like I was wasting everyone else’s space, even though people do have the choice not to pay attention to you.</p>

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<p>If people are “liking and commenting” on where some people are going, obviously that information is on a WALL. If you’re a member of a group, you have privelages to post whatever you want on the group’s wall regardless of the moderators. So, how they could restrict you from posting that you’re going to SJU on a wall is beyond me.</p>

<p>This is slightly fishy</p>

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<p>^ I wasn’t restricted on posting Stj to the wall. I did get the privelage to, but the issue here (if you can at least re-read in the front), they didn’t list me under the people who are attending Stj next year. </p>

<p>omg… please re-read my comment above.</p>