<p>I’d like to reiterate that as a guy, you should NEVER EVER take relationship advice from a girl. Absolute worst thing you could do. Find your male friend who has had sex with the most girls and emulate what he does if you must. Better yet, you could realize that learning how to talk to and read girls is a something gained from years of experience and cannot be learned from strangers on the internet.</p>
<p>^ i had a friend once that got many girls. the whole irony of it is how he literally just treated them like numbers disposable as paper. seriously, like every month he would have a new gf. in front of thier face he would act all nice and stuff, but behind thier back he would talk about banging other girls, totally degrading them calling them his *****es, and say things like “im getting bored of my gf time to find another”. yet these are the kind of guys the ladies flock to. LOL =D just throw any kind of rationale out the window.</p>
<p>It’s completely rational for the girls to flock to him. It’s because women are biologically designed to be attracted to an alpha male. Obviously the OP is a beta and that’s why he got rejected.</p>
<p>Work on yourself and learn not to give a **** about said female.</p>
<p>^lol i always laugh at the whole alpha male thing people bring up. we are not lions or wolves people. we have the ability to reason…at least those of us who have evolved…</p>
<p>^ Herp derp do you eat when you’re hungry? How about sleep when you’re tired? It’s instinct and women use that instinct to find the most suitable mate, the alpha male.</p>
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<p>Yeahhhhh, how 'bout not.</p>
<p>^ Lol your comparing basic needs to a personality trait. Any tool can start lifting weights and try to act like a ‘alpha male’. Wolves and animals need an alpha male for their own survival. The alpha male your referring to is not genetic code. Its the way someone acts, absoloutly nothing to do with genetics. So are you saying some dudes are born alpha males and some or born beta males? LOL. its the envionrment we were raised in. Geez man good luck in college if you actually believe that “alpha male” is something that is geneticly coded in our dna.</p>
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Having “reasoning ability” doesn’t by any means preclude biological impulse or evolutionary imperative. It’s perfectly acceptable to use the term alpha male in regards to humans because guess what, some guys have a disproportionately large amount of sex while other lower quality males are involuntarily virginal. it doesn’t matter how they get this way, it just is. Just like lions and wolves. Shocking, I know. Also, evolution does not occur on scale of individuals.</p>
<p>Let’s not turn this into a discussion on evolutionary sociobiology.</p>
<p>What the hell? LOL
Why do so many men assume we’re all alike and we all want *******s as boyfriends? If you act like an a dominating asshat you’ll attract the type of girl who’s into that type.
I don’t understand all this over analyzing.
Just be yourself. That is all there is to it. This goes for both sexes.
If you just want a hook up than go for it. If you want something serious work for it, get to know someone and maybe they’ll be interested or not either way it’s not the end of the world. If you want to go solo, go for it.
We aren’t that complicating and we aren’t only into one type of guy I can assure you that.</p>
<p>@ Calliebotte First of im i am aware that evolution does not occur in individuals, it was a joke…(you really thought i was serious about that part?) And if you havn’t noticed I was poking fun at him for using the term alpha male. Because I think its funny when people use it on humans. And if that guy who treats all his gf’s like that is considered an ‘alpha male’ to you tools, then damn… god help us all and the fate of mankind.</p>
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<p>I have no idea what half of you are babbling about. Some guys have a disproportionate amount of success with girls. Whether or not you label them ‘alpha males’ is irrelevant. What is relevant is that there is a marked variance in reproductive success in everything that is subject to evolutionary pressures (incl. humans).</p>
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Spare us the phony indignation, there are girls who in equal numbers and just as frequently go through guys as if they were disposable. Guys and girls alike who behave in that manner are generally considered assho***. That is only tangentially related to being an alpha male, which is something that can be achieved through politeness and charm.</p>
<p>^ dude *** are you talking about? Did you even read my before posts and why I even said all those things in the first place or are you just rambling on to sound smart on the internet? Read my first post at the top of the page Einstein maybe that will clear some things up.</p>
<p>How do you know she really likes you? She could like the attention. But it sounds like you really like her, so if something does happen what’s from stopping her to be flirting with other guys. She sounds like bad news. Be her friend and let her know that. There are girls everywhere, you can find another that’s probably better</p>
<p>Being a beta has its advantages too: the effective beta is what gets the women away from the alphas. In the modern world, this means having a lot of $$$, the ability to logically reason a woman into a long term relationship, or even on a larger scale: collectively working to establish social norms that allow for long term relationships in the first place.</p>
<p>In modern society, you don’t need to be an alpha male to survive, but not that long ago (on an evolutionary scale), that was necessary. All of this stuff made sense 10,000yr ago, but genetic attraction is still the same. This is why guys like women who are in-shape and have large chests, as well as why tall guys tend to attract more females. Otherwise, in terms of actual reproductive success, I should technically find that semi-chubby geek with a flat chest to be more attractive than a crazy party girl. Yet, this isn’t the case.</p>
<p>^ 40 alpha males have already been through the woman that the effective beta gets later on in life. Why should the white knight have to settle for a woman who lacks any inhibitions?</p>
<p>Can’t turn a *** into a housewife.</p>
<p>how do i get her to be my friend</p>
<p>Y’all been ■■■■■■■ I think.</p>
<p>Tell her that she has made a good friend. It will confuse her Bc it sounds like shes likes the attention from guys and how they try to be more than friends so being a friend will throw off the routine</p>
<p>Just let it go.</p>
<p>You don’t NEED this girl! You’re in college, so meet some new people and broaden your horizons a little.</p>
<p>STOP FEEDING THE ■■■■■/</p>