<p>^ Great change, but hard to do so, for me.</p>
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Waiting for magic to strike is not a good approach; you're not going to wake up one morning magically confident and with girls lining up to talk to you.
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<p>This might happen, but I assure you that when it does, people, the reason won't be sincere (money, fame).... and if you do take the "wait for magic" approach, you'll probably get a girl or two, and 99.99% chance that they won't be who you want, but they'll fit your inability to grab your sack and find what you do want, so you may just have to "settle". Later on in life, however, you will be punching mirrors for the misery you caused yourself for not being a little more assertive and going out to meet, know, date, find that one you REALLY want.</p>
<p>girls and guys are both nervous when it comes to this stuff. even if she's not interested, she'll probably be flattered.</p>
<p>^ 311Griff</p>
<p>I need more of that type of talking to make me change =|</p>
<p>You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. Think of it that way. So at some point you'll need to change it to at least 99% so that you have a chance in the first place.</p>
<p>let us know how it goes if you do go for it, k?</p>
<p>conard, that is exactly what my uncle said last night after telling him that I am too shy to approach girls... :-\
This one girl that I like in my polisci class really likes the rascal flatts as do I really like them... maybe that might help :)</p>
<p>lol this thread is hilarious, i was looking on this website about college issues since I'm a senior in hs right now. and i end up seeing a thread so im like wth lets post haha
since im here and everyone loves giving advice. id thought i seek out some advice since i cant figure out wat to do with my situation</p>
<p>situation: what would u do if a girl u spent the whole summer with came to visit her cousins and im friends with the cousins. We hanged out almost everyday, when summer was over we would only talk when we were online, cuz i never thought about getting her phone number.
so then now its prob been 3 years and we still talk online, the conversation is most of the time interesting and funny. recently she told me she had a crush on me that summer and its one of those faraway crushes
i dunt know y but i completed avoided that fact and i continuued talking to her pretending that never happened.
{o and i forgot to say she lives in pennsylvania and im in new jersey, we're probably about 1-2 hours away}
I dunt know why, but somehting about her attracts me to her and since prom is aroudn the corner i thought it would be a great opportunity to ask her to go with me. For some reason id really like her to go with me, some of my other firneds/girls, i dunno i just dunt see it
I'm a shy guy as well just like some of the other peopl ein the other posts in this thread
what do u think i should do in this long distance sort of thing, im not expecting her to become4 my gf just like that, but i keep thinking if i ask her, im afraid shell say know since (ya know in an azn family esp. chinese the parents are rather overly protective and of course like it seems most azn grls spend most of ther time studying anyway) blahh i dunno what to do, this has been bothering me but it got worse when i was told by my friends "so who u takeing to the prom" and im like standing ther, trying to think of something to say . lol
plz help me ahhhh thx</p>
<p>You have no balls??</p>
<p>Then why ask a girl out? :)</p>
<p>How did it end up?</p>
<p>try to act jockish even if ur not a jock. Especially if ur a shy asian. Jock really develops your social skills.. especially around girls.</p>
<p>No just be you. They will detect your fake behavior a mile away.</p>
<p>Ask her a question on homework - the easiest thing ever is to ask when something is due. When she tells you, you can comment on the assignment. If she's interested (and not busy!), she will more than likely strike up a conversation, at which time you can usually tell whether or not she's the amazing girl you have imagined.</p>