Your grades from your first year will always be a part of your record. There’s no way around that. Even if you tried to pretend that they didn’t exist, a school would uncover those grades because colleges use a “clearinghouse” that shows everywhere a person went to college during their past.
If you do well the next two years at a CC, then you might be able to get into a pretty good school. PAYING for that school will be an issue since you said that your parents wont pay. A school isn’t going to give you more aid just because your parents won’t pay.
Right NOW, concentrate on getting the best grades you can at a CC. That’s all you can do right now. Then see what your options are after that.