All of the advice above is so good…all I can do here is validate your feelings…my kid made a million friends last year (as a freshman)…this year (as an upperclassman) zero/zilch/not one…and she’s an outgoing kid! I really think colleges need to think more about this…they encourage transfers but i wonder if they’re thinking enough about how transfers will fit in…it’s really really hard to break through when most folks have already segmented off.