<p>In high school I had plenty of friends and I didn't have any trouble making new ones either. Every weekend I'd have something to do, whether it was going to parties or just hanging out with people; I was never really alone. College time rolled around and instead of going to the university that all my friends were going to, I opted to go far away to a small private school as I was recruited to play a sport.</p>
<p>I just can't seem to make any friends here at my college. I'm pretty cool with my roommate, but his friends don't seem to like me very much and they never invite me to parties, places, or even down to the dining hall with them. Everybody here seems to be from the surrounding area or within the state and to know each other. They're cliquey too, making it extremely hard to try and squeeze myself into activities or conversations. Making friends during class is near impossible; I don't want to be a disruption during a lecture. When I try to start conversations with people, they don't seem very interested and just kind of ignore me. And you'd think my new teammates would have open arms, but they're the same as mentioned above. Clubs are out of the question as I'm taking 18 hours of class a week, have tons of homework, and fall practice is about to begin.</p>
<p>I do dress a bit different (I'm kind of a preppy dresser) and my taste in music seems to be very different, but other than that I'm completely normal. I am by no means a "weird" kid, so I have no idea what's so unappealing about me.</p>
<p>I've stopped going to the dining hall and pretty much eating all together since I hate sitting by myself. After class I just study, do homework, and sleep all day. I never really leave my dorm now since there's nothing to do on this small campus and I don't have a car. Everybody leaves on the weekends to go home or to the larger surrounding colleges for parties, making this place a ghost town. </p>
<p>I've entertained the idea of transferring to the university all my friends are at next semester, but my mom insist that I stay here to play sports at the collegiate level and because of the good science program, but I'm not sure I can stand this much longer. </p>
<p>I feel hopeless, alone, and different; like an outcast. I miss my friends. I miss my family. I miss having someone to talk to. I feel like I'm missing out on the whole "college" experience. My friends are having the times of their lives while I'm here in an unfamiliar place, alone.</p>
<p>I guess what I'm looking for is guidance or help. What would you guys do in my situation? Should I transfer? Or should I just stick through it?</p>
<p>Thanks.</p>