I think your requests are reasonable. Nothing wrong with wanting a place that’s fun, and nothing wrong with wanting info that goes beneath the standard self-praising baloney that each college’s web site is going to say.
Your grades are excellent; how about your ACT or SAT scores?
Tucsonmom mentioned weather. Since most colleges’ academic year runs from September to April, weather can be a huge variable in how much fun you will be having. If you’re not into skiing or other snow & ice sports, then schools like Michigan, Penn State & Notre Dame will give you a couple nice months in the fall, & probably one nice month in the spring. The rest of the time you are often scurrying to/from class in cold, snowy, or rainy weather.
There have been many good suggestions…I’d add U of Georgia, U of South Florida, and Florida Atlantic.