<p>ok i meet this girl at this party. we get along pretty well and by the end of the night we are pretty drunk and we hook up. this girl is hot and had been planning to get with me the entire night (weird but ok). so the next day i check my mail and she friend requests me on FB right away. so i talk to my other friend who kind of knows her and he tells me that shes pretty popular with the guys. then she IMs me and we talk about all this stupid stuff tht happened at the party. i dont plan on IMing her back anytime unless she IMs me. so what should i do? is she worth to pursue? i don't think she is, but I'M lookin for some opinions. i might invite her to my friends party this weekend, but im not sure. I'm pretty indifferent to the whole situation because i can't come to believe she's interested in me or that I'm interested in her lol.</p>
<p>if you don't like her than don't do anything
don't just try to pursue a girl who's popular if there's no mutual attraction czu then it's gonna end FAST</p>
<p>yeah cory she's bangin'. there really is no problem haha. i guess i shall invite her to the partayy. </p>
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ummm.... I can't help but laugh a little when I see people asking for relationship advice on CC...
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<p>ummmmmmmmm why did u post? go study for the SAT or somethin'. this is the high school board i believe. i don't think everything on CC has to be about nerdy SAT college ****. </p>
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Make sure you get her drunk again and take advantage of the situation this time. Not everyone has such good luck, you know.
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<p>that's actually pretty pathetic haha. she'll be gone again and so will everyone, but that's not me. i'm sure some other f@ggot will do that though. i just get that vibe from her haha. oh wait i thought you said 'take advantage of her'. you probably mean that though haha.</p>
<p>if she imed you, then you know she didn't have drunk goggles on. If you like her, or at least think she's attractive, you should invite her to the party.</p>
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ummmmmmmmm why did u post? go study for the SAT or somethin'. this is the high school board i believe. i don't think everything on CC has to be about nerdy SAT college ****.
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<p>Whoa whoa whoa, calm down. No need to get so defensive. She does have a point you know; this is the kind of thing you ask a random friend about, not post about on an internet forum.</p>
<p>Anyways, you should invite her to the party and hang out some more. At least get to know each other more.</p>
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Whoa whoa whoa, calm down. No need to get so defensive. She does have a point you know; this is the kind of thing you ask a random friend about, not post about on an internet forum.
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<p>yeah i talked to my friends about it, but i was juss curious to see what others thought. and then this girl comes on and makes a pointless comment. she was on the 'offensive' so i went on the 'defensive' if you know what i mean. </p>
<p>in all seriousness i think my point was better, but maybe i little more offensive . rephrased ... "Why did you post on my thread if you had nothing to contribute to it? This is the high school board and i'm in high school and i have a question that relates to high school so answer it or ignore it simple as that."
sorry about the rest. i was juss fired up haha. </p>
<p>anyways..
phishfan she claims to not remember anything, but slowly as i mention stuff she remembers it. one thing she did remember though was hooking up with me. and she brought that up i didnt so idk this girl is confusing. but its all cool. thanks guys hahaha</p>
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maybe you shouldn't go to the internet to guide you through your social life
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<p>geez so many haters. i thought if i went to an intelligent community like CC that i would be able to get some cool advice, instead i get these deadly sober comments like yours. no thanks. </p>
<p>actually i was hoping for some witty comments, but yours are just blah. come on. if you're gonna go for a shot at me at least make it funny haha. and if so i'll gladly return the favor haha :) </p>
<p>ok, as a penance for my pointless comment, I'll give a real reply:</p>
<p>Speaking from a girl's point of view, there are most likely one of two things going on: 1. She's looking for a "fling"-like relationship (in which case, if you don't mind just having fun, there's not really any problem with doing that... and you never know if it will develop into more, just don't go in expecting it). or 2. She's thinking the same thing as you (as in she does like you too and doesn't want the drunken hook up to completely ruin your chances of having a relationship [even just a friendship])</p>
<p>And about my pointless comment... it was just one of those flip things I said without thinking. Personally, it doesn't cross my mind to ask about relationship things on message boards of any kind, so it always seems a little surprising to me. But to each their own, and I shouldn't have said anything. That being said, you didn't have to go off on me like that. But oh well...</p>