I have an update for all of you my girlfriend is now going to a private school and stuff but she wants to talk to me about everything that happened tmrw while me and my 4 good friend are going downtown. Idk what to do mainly because I feel like something is off about this and she wants for me to be all by my self with her. I feel like I shouldn’t but maybe We can both benefit from it what should I do .
she is now spaming my phone to talk tmrw
Tell her you’ll talk to her in a week or two. Just say you are glad she is healthy, but you’re sorting through some things of your own and need time. She still might be angry at you, so give her time to cool off before you meet her. Ask her to please stop spamming your phone in the meantime or you will block her. I hate to tell you to block her when she is in such a dark place, but some boundaries are important right now.
yeah that sounds good
She clearly troubled. However if you were my child, I’d want you explain you won’t be responding to texts and need a break. Her support network should not include you. It’s not your fault. You have a right to decide not to want to be in a relationship. While not intentional, my opinion is that her behavior is manipulative.
First off she is not your girlfriend. You need to know that now. Just because you kissed her doesn’t make her your girlfriend. You have been a great friend to her and she can’t see that now. At this point do not meet with her alone. An adult should be nearby with you. Nothing good will come of her yelling at you for her being sent to another school. She will get help where she is going. Just know her life has a chance to change for the better because of you. If things work out for her, she will thank you later. She is not there yet.
ok I was just saying she was my girlfriend as a general term she holds me as if I’m a trophy to be won for.
I wasn’t saying that to be rude BTW . You seem like a great guy. Just know because of you she is getting the help she needs. It will take a long time for her to get better. It is a long process that hopefully she will complete.
yeah I know
I would just like to say to everyone Who helped me through this it means so much and even the people who didn’t but just vieved thank u. U r spreading awerness of depression and means a lot to me and most likey the world to others so I just wanted to say thank u for everything I dont know if I would be where Im at without your support
You are welcome. And I hope you have a lot of support beyond these boards. I hope your parents and guidance counselors have been having conversations with you and will keep having conversations with you. As @Knowsstuff said, you’re a great kid. If my daughter was in that kind of terrible place, I’d be extremely grateful to you for saving her life. But also you deserve a “normal” high school experience. Your biggest worries should be your grades and your future (normal high school worries), not the stuff you have been handling the last few weeks. I hope the rest of your high school career is smooth and successful.
thank u it means a lot