I need some insight and help!

<p>Ok I'm writing two essays (one for common app, and the other because....well I want to)</p>

<ol>
<li>Fear of growing up. </li>
<li><p>how a baby is at peace in the womb, how I feared growing up, but how growth/change can be good
*should I right this one?</p></li>
<li><p>Brotherly fued.</p></li>
<li><p>life with 2 brothers,me being the middle one, how we fued, but despite our differences how important we are to eachother
*should I right this one?</p></li>
</ol>

<p>~ I have to write one first, the other i'll just use as a supplement, if any schools require secondary essays.
Which one should I right first and are these ideas cliched or no?</p>

<p>Hum, just by recognizing the topics, they seem a bit used, but what topic hasn’t? If you put it in a unique context, then it doesn’t quite matter if that topic’s been written about millions of times because the way you wrote it is different.</p>

<p>Personally, I prefer the first topic to the second, so I think you should write that one first as the main essay or whatever. Just a note, your post is worded strangely. But besides that you’ll be fine.</p>