I am writing this because I don’t know what else to do. I really don’t like college, like at all. I graduated at the top of my class and was the one that everyone expected to “do great things in life”. But I just hate college. I haven’t made barely any friends and I’m two months into it. I don’t like my classes and I feel dumb in all of them compared to my other classmates. I am also super homesick. I cry pretty much everyday because I am just so unhappy. I don’t know what to do. I have considered transferring, but I have no idea if the college I would transfer to would be any better. My parents are making stay at my current college for a year, so I still have a long way to go. I just really hate it and I am super unhappy. My college has clubs, but they only meet once a month, so making friends in them is super hard. Also, after classes everyone just leaves so there is really no time to socialize. I also feel that everyone has made their friends already and I’m just the loner. I just want to make friends. Does anyone have any advice? I don’t know how much I can handle and I just want to go home. I feel that if I went home though, I would disappoint everyone I know. Please give me some advice. Thanks in advance
Have you contacted any of the services your college offers for students who might feel this way? Counseling? I think you owe it to yourself to try a few things before giving up.
too keep you busy, why not try having an internship or work. you might meet new people from different age group. when I had my internship, I do not consider them as friends but family already because they are mature enough and think differently.