<p>Wow, seriously today I just found out that my crush who I was planning on asking out is apparently dating somebody. I feel so depressed; I really liked her and I thought she liked me. :(</p>
<p>move on...it's the only thing you can do</p>
<p>on the bright side, at least you didn't embarrass yourself</p>
<p>yeah that sucks</p>
<p>~3 billion females on this planet...</p>
<p>I'd say you'll find someone... don't worry about it!</p>
<p>Kill him.</p>
<p>of those 3 billion i'd say 1/3 are taken...so that reduces the number to 2 billion...that's still a big number....i wish i had 2 billion dollars</p>
<p>then maybe 1/8 of those 2 billion are lesbian....so you're down to 1.75 billion women.</p>
<p>but then you factor in the exact same thing for taken and gay men, and we're all basically even.</p>
<p>oh, oops, this is a pity party, isn't it? disregard that. the odds are totally against you..</p>
<p>.....what?</p>
<p>???????????????</p>
<p>at least i'm not the only confused one...</p>
<p>How did you find out she was dating somebody? And, why does this make you depressed? Lots of girls date lots of guys and vice versa... we're you expecting her to just hide in a corner and save it all for your selfish desires? Ask her out, she still may go out with you, unless she's thinking marriage with this guy, or doesn't really like you that much. Yeah, you may have to face that reality, but it's always worth a shot since you only live once... (as far as we know)</p>
<p>well, maybe she was waiting for you to make a move the whole time...and when you didn't, she decided it's time to move on.</p>
<p>The last girl I asked out already had a boyfriend, but didn't tell me about it. Glad I found out fairly soon.</p>
<p>Haha I was about to take the OTHER side on what you guys were saying up there, but then realized that you probably didn't want to hear that because this thread is about..something kind of unfortunate.</p>
<p>(if that makes more sense? oh, i'm so misunderstood ;) )</p>
<p>bmanbs2, maybe she was looking to ditch the b/f for you... that's why she didn't tell you... (or better yet, she may have wanted to "get with you" with no attachment as her side man).... a b/f is not marriage... and I know lots of girls who will tell people they have a b/f to keep guys off of them, and/or to appear stable and secure in the eyes of others. Sometimes girls have a b/f just until they can find somebody better.... you may be that better guy... so don't take it tooo damn seriously.</p>
<p>There's probably not much you can do but feel bad for a couple weeks... it's a good idea not to post this kind of stuff on CC (not everybody of course, but a lot). People here don't realize that people at a low point need sympathy or just somebody to listen or agree with them, not statistics or rationality or unnecessary logic. Besides, the other hundreds or thousands or millions of females are not the one that the OP liked or wanted to be with, so those numbers mean nothing.</p>
<p>That's the thing...ppl fish for comments and sympathy...the truth hurts more though I think, but it's the most helpful in realizing the situation</p>
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<p>Come on, a couple weeks? The OP seems to have just missed the opportunity to ask a girl out that may/may not know he has a crush on her. It's not like there was some strong feelings there... just puppy crush/love. Something like this should take a max of a week, but most people can get through it in less than that... just move on, open your eyes... love/chicks/dates are all around you.</p>
<p>hey guys I just found out that she is not dating him anymore. They apparently had a bitter argument on their first date! I dont have to go to the liquor store now!!!!!!!!! wow I am happy. Thanks guys!</p>