<p>@raclut, We were in the same sort of situation with D13 last summer. She was asked to produce a documentary half way around the world. She beat out college students for the job and we were thrilled for her. However, we had a family meeting about the pros and cons and decided to turn down the project. D stayed home to start college applications and research EE. I know she may sometimes regret turning down the documentary but she realizes her summer homework paid off and made her Sr. yr less stressful. In the end she was happy to know she was selected and offered a unique opportunity. I’m sure many more will come along her way.</p>