<p>I had googled "how to transfer" and stumbled upon this website, and the people here seem really great so I thought I'd give it a shot. My own parents are pretty bewildered about the education system in the states, so I'm hoping I get some advice here.</p>
<p>A little about me: I moved to the states three years ago, and did my 11th and 12th grade here. I loved highschool, made plenty of friends, got a 3.7 GPA with AP classes, got into Wellesely- my dream school. However, I couldn't afford Wellesley. Mt. Holyoke, one of my other choices, I could afford- with the merit scholarship and a cumulative loan of $20,000. Finally, I chose Saint Louis University, 20 minutes away, since it gave me the most money and I want to save as much of it since I think med school may be an option.</p>
<p>I am completely miserable here... second semester of freshman year starts tomorrow and I'm dreading it. I managed to get a 3.86 GPA and form good relations with my professors. However, my social life is non existent. Everyone here is nice - however they have different ideas on what fun and a good conversation means, and the interactions I have with my peers are forced and superficial. I don't party or drink either, so that also seems to be a factor. I cry a lot of nights because I feel really lonely and have begged my parents to pick me up - and they have, for one weekend a month.</p>
<p>I don't know what to do. I don't know if I should just suck up the loans and distance from home, and transfer to Mount Holyoke, even though there is a danger of me not making friends there either. My parents tell me that I have to try other ways of making friends, or learn to enjoy my own company, or that they will give me a car so I can commute... incase I decide not to transfer.</p>
<p>If you have any ideas or have had any of your children in similar situations, please let me know. Thanks for reading!</p>