<p>the number one characteristic you'd look for in an opposite gender,
what would it be?</p>
<p>for me, it would be 'responsibility'</p>
<p>so basically what do you guys look for when you approach the opposite gender?</p>
<p>Interesting thread title… [none]</p>
<p>Potential.
I think saying that is sort of cheating, since it can mean potential in a variety of areas so if I really do have to choose just one, it would be intelligence.</p>
<p>I concur. I base my womanizing tastes on God</p>
<p>‘A gentle nature’</p>
<p>Unconventional.</p>
<p>Tough question…</p>
<p>hmmm probably either:</p>
<ul>
<li>Kindness.</li>
</ul>
<p>OR</p>
<p>-Patience.</p>
<p>She’d better be unconventional and unique in her own way. Most girls are freakin’ boring. That girl with rainbow hair color is more interesting than that cheerleader down the street. No stereotyping intended.</p>
<p>^ and that! interesting so i can talk with him for hours and hours and hours and hours…about stuff.</p>
<p>Passion
-for what they do
-for what they hope to achieve
…it is just a lovely characteristic in a man</p>
<p>Common sense…please have common sense</p>
<p>I’m gonna go with something physical: taller than me</p>
<p>Charismatic.
Which means:
-generally good-looking
-interesting</p>
<p>Intelligent. Be slightly below, preferably above my level.</p>
<p>Opposite gender?
Uh… </p>
<p>Loyalty, I guess, since opposite gender people are usually only friends.</p>
<p>If you mean the gender that I am attracted to, then wisdom.</p>
<p>This thread is so biased against homos D= but I’ll respond anyways.</p>
<p>Between loyalty and intelligence, I’d probably choose the latter.</p>
<p>Empathy/Compassion</p>
<p>
What about lesbians?</p>
<p>I would go with responsibility as well. This would entitle them to be responsible of their health, physically and mentally as well as how they act and look. :]
^Lesbians are “gay” in the sense that they tend to have sex appeal with those of the same sex/gender.</p>
<p>^^ Lesbians are still gay.</p>
<p>Actually, all people of the world have the potential to be gay as long as they take the time to remember to smile.
Oh wait, we weren’t talking about the original definition of the word gay? Oh well.</p>
<p>^That is why I put quotations around gay romani. lol.</p>