If you are a very talented person or a run of the mill person, life is a series of endless choices, and you hold a great deal of control. I am a run of the mill person. I live in Hawaii. I had my morning coffee at the beach, watched NFL on my lanai, and then made guava syrup from the tree in my backyard. Kids, if someone as ho-hum as me can pull this off, don’t let anyone tell you you only have two choices.