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<p>Also, a lot can change in 2+ years which may cause you to revisit/reconsider your options either way. This is a stage when some boys could have dramatic improvements in maturity/aspirations. </p>
<p>Keep this as an ongoing conversation between you, your son, and your spouse so communication lines remain open and allowances could be made for changing factors as a result of possible growth/maturation.</p>