<p>Well, aside from MIT and Princeton, both top Chem E programs, U of Delaware is surprisingly considered one of the top 5 or so Chem E schools nationwide. It isn't too large for a public uni (about 15,000) and you would likely be at the top of their applicant pool, with significant merit aid. It is close to the Philly/NJ pharma and petrochem companies and is well known by those in the industry. </p>
<p>Probably the major question you need to answer still for us is whether you would prefer a tech-oriented school or a more well-rounded university environment. If the former, I would look into places like Rose Hulman, Georgia Tech, RPI and Carnegie Mellon. If the latter, maybe take a look at Northwestern, Bucknell, Penn, Lehigh, and Lafayette. (again, note how many Pennsylvania/NJ area schools keep appearing)</p>
<p>Another important consideration is whether you actually want to be a practicing engineer, or whether you would rather parlay your degree into a related area of consulting, law, or medicine. Pedigree (MIT/Ivy/similar) tends to be much more significant in those types of industries.</p>
<p>Hopefully that gives you a start, at least, and you can help us follow up better.</p>