<p>So, the first week of college has come and past and it has been the hardest week of my life. One, is to recognize when my mental health is at risk, and two, is to reach out for help. </p>
<p>So I've literally spent most my first week crying over my family. It sucks. I miss my mom, and my step-dad, and my baby sister and since they're across the damn country, it's really hard for me to reach out for help. I recognized the issue the first day I came here--I couldn't stop the need to cry. So, I filled out some forms in the health office and got myself some counseling. They have helping things for people going through transitions, and although I've been through many transitions in my life, I've never been through one without my family. I miss them more and more every day and I literally just want to drop out, go home, and hug my sister for forever. </p>
<p>But, I can't. I feel bad because I was accepted into a study abroad program in Scotland for the spring semester, and I'm not sure I can do it anymore. I feel like I'd be disappointing my mom if I told her that I needed to transfer closer to home, where I could commute or just be able to go home at the end of the day. She had me when she was a teenager, so it's a big deal for her that I have this opportunity. She says she's supportive, but I know that deep inside it hurts her. It sucks.</p>
<p>My baby sister also means the world to me. My mom had her when I was fourteen, so I've had a huge hand in helping to raise her. She's literally the reason I do anything good in my life, and she's my main support system. It's tough to put that on a four year old, but its the truth. I'd be nowhere near where I am today if I didn't push myself for her. I don't know, I just...its hard to explain. Loving someone so much hurts. </p>
<p>The thing that's making me go haywire is a) my Generalized Anxiety Disorder, and b) what I believe to be signs of my impending clinical depression. I literally cannot keep any food down. Last friday, the day my mom left, I almost puked from what I'd eaten, and it wasn't much. It wasn't that i wasn't hungry, it was that the high stressful levels didn't help me keep it down. I cried myself to sleep, even though my mom was at a hotel nearby. Why?</p>
<p>Because it was my last day with her (college wise), and they didn't let me spend it with her. They separated us from our parents the middle of the day, kept us apart until three thirty, and then told us to say goodbye at four thirty. It was the hardest thing I ever did, so I snuck out of orientation the next day and spent the night with my mom. Then, I had to take some placement tests so I went to take them. Then I had to say goodbye to my mom and pretend like I was completely normal. I wasn't. </p>
<p>One of the reasons I'd chosen this school was because my parents had told me that they were going to move to a city nearby, which I was excited about since I'd only be two hours away. Then, my dad got a job offer in our current city and he's considering taking it. They're trying their best not to, but it's huge. So that just increases my stressful levels, since that was one of the main reasons I chose the school. </p>
<p>The counseling center luckily set up an emergency meeting for me, recognizing how I was feeling. They put me on a thirty six hour plan so that I could be okay, and then they're meeting with me tomorrow morning. I've only been able to take down liquids recently, and I'm literally hating everything about it. I try to look at the positives, and then I just remember my family and I want to cry. </p>
<p>I want to go home so, so bad. I don't want to be here anymore. Its been a week, and I don't want to be here. Dorming is not meant for me. I also kind of needed to vent to someone that wasn't my mom so that she wouldn't feel bad anymore. On the parent's network, they've been offering to help me and all of that, but its so much more than that. I just want my mom, and my sister, and my dad. I know the usual thing to tell me is to stick it out and keep going, and although the classes are a good distraction and what not, I'm not much of a 'college life' type of person. I'm more of a stay home, read a book, spend time with family type of person. </p>
<p>I just miss my mom. She's my best friend, she's the best thing ever. I know I can do college, but I need to be closer to home. This is absolutely awful, and the thoughts that have been springing into my mind lately are of no help at all. </p>
<p>Thank you for reading this. It's kind of long, and sad, but i needed someone to tell this to. </p>