<p>I can somewhat sympathize with you (I have been fortunate enough not to experience such things, but I know some people who have) and I am sure universities will take this into account. However, they would not want to accept you if you are not qualified enough. Due to the strenuous circumstances which you went through, I am sure there are certain universities who will overlook your bad high school career. However, you must be able to prove that you have overcome it. You can do this in a number of ways - one being standardized tests. If you can, let’s say, score very well on the ACT, it may be taken as a site that you have overcome that and are qualified to handle the workload at university. However, as you say your “disability is life long,” you will have difficulty going to a good university. But, as I hope you know, there are numerous Autistic students who attend university. Perhaps most importantly, you need to decide whether to stay at home and study close to where you live or move away. There is a lot to consider when making this decision. Many students with disabilities find that living at home while studying at university is the most suitable option. Because going to university brings with it some significant changes, the option of living at home may be preferable to help keep a sense of routine. This, of course, very much depends on the support network that you have at home. If you have a good network of friends, family and professionals, this may influence your decision. However, there will be the opportunity to create a new support network if you do decide to move away from home. This is not the case for you. You will also have to find a university which accommodates your disability. This varies depending on the university; you will need to refer to the prospectuses. You are likely to find that on a larger campus there will be facilities such as a launderette, a grocery store, a book shop, café, sports facilities and various other facilities. Open days are a good way to visit campuses, talk to staff and see what facilities are on offer. You can ask about clubs and societies that the university runs and find out if they offer any social groups for students who have disabilities. </p>
<p>When looking through the prospectuses or university websites check to see whether the university is on one campus or spread over a number of sites. If the university is spread over a number of sites, ask which campus or campuses you would be expected to go to for your lectures and seminars. Many people find it quite stressful travelling to and from different campuses, so if you have to do this, ask if the university offers their own bus service between campuses or find out how you could get to and from the campus yourself. If you feel that this would cause you too much anxiety, perhaps look at universities that are based on one main campus. The size of the university is important regardless of whether you want to stay at home or move away to study. Larger universities may have more to offer in terms of facilities, but this also means that there will be more students there. It is important that the universities you choose provide the facilities and support that are important to you. This will help make your university experience a positive one. You will need to contact the disability support staff at the university to find out about support services they offer and for a chance to talk about the support that you feel you may need whilst at university. It is useful to make contact with the support services before starting at university so that the support is in place from the beginning of the course.</p>
<p>Understandably, preparing for and starting university can be a particularly anxious time. For some individuals, seeing a counsellor can help with managing these feelings, and some students find that, once at university, they experience problems that they are unable to manage without some outside support. If you find yourself suffering from high levels of anxiety or problems that you find hard to cope with, you may find it helpful to talk to a counsellor. Most universities will have a student counselling service that you can access on a regular basis. I highly recommend you do this. This is much better than asking here. </p>
<p>Here are some universities for people with such disabilities:
<a href=“Autism: Causes, diagnosis, and treatment”>http://www.healthcentral.com/autism/c/1443/162384/colleges-universities-programs/</a></p>
<p>Here is some more information:
<a href=“404”>http://www.autism.org.uk/living-with-autism/education-and-transition/further-and-higher-education/university-choosing-and-applying.aspx</a></p>
<p>You can apply to schools with very high acceptance rates or those with open admissions policy (100% acceptance rates). </p>
<p>Good luck! </p>