<p>TwinDad, </p>
<p>Sorry for the delay in response, I've been a little bit under the weather. </p>
<p>In regards to my comment "now that I've seen what I've seen in the real world" all I can say is a ugh...</p>
<p>I hate responding to these types of questions because I don't want to be the type that discourages someone from pursuing their dreams especially since their reach a point where I stopped pursuing mine.</p>
<p>I think the easiest way to answer this so that you get a perspective of where I'm coming from is for me to take a few steps back and do what all self-centered performers like to do, talk about themselves.</p>
<p>I started acting when I was 10 in community theater. When I turned 13 I was cast in a show that was touring the world. When I got to high school (public school) I had no problems getting cast in a lead roles and won most of the thespian competitions I entered to the state level. My grades suffered because I still touring but when I was a sophomore in auditioned for one of the consortium auditions I received amazing responses and was basically told by some of the schools that all I had to do was take the SAT and that the grades didn't matter because I would be admitted based on talent.</p>
<p>Don't worry I'm not just bragging, I'm actually going somewhere with this, I promise. Because performing was all I had known and seemed to be so easy for me I figured that it would continue this way all throughout high school, college/drama school and then on into my professional career.</p>
<p>I chose to go Conservatory and get a BFA in musical theater because after looking at some of the Universities and the requirements that they had for liberal arts it was pretty clear to me that there was no way I was going to pass foreign languages and required math credits needed to graduate. In my mind this didn't matter because I was going to continue doing what I've done since I was 10, and did not see the need to have a university degree. After two years working towards a BFA at Conservatory I decided to take it even more intensive and moved to New York City and study it true Conservatory where no liberal arts were taught at all only acting (I refer to this as my Lawrence Olivier period). After finishing the two year Conservatory in New York City I had once again justified in my head that I had spent four years in school and was going to just tell people that I have my BFA if they ever asked. </p>
<p>This was in 1996 and because my father had worked for IBM I had grown up on computers. It was a very good time to have grown up on computers because the dot com craze was booming. So instead of having to wait tables while auditioning I was able to find employment in the business world. Perhaps it was growing up and moving on to a new part of my life that I left the theater or the reality that if I didn't jump on this train while it was moving I could see that I would be left behind with no education other than singing, acting and dance. So once again I justified to myself and jump on the train. I never acted again, at least not on stage. Acting did come in handy as I built my own company, pitching investors and venture capital firms. But to be very honest, I lied on my resume because I knew that there was no way I would get funded with the background I had.</p>
<p>Here's where my comment comes into play. As I gained real-world business experience in New York City during the dot com frenzy and even survived as it fell, I still lacked the basic knowledge and understanding and even math that it took to run a business. I was forced to put my faith and trust in accountants and other employees in hopes that they did not screw me over because how would I have ever known. </p>
<p>One of the things that I remember so clearly that I do not think will ever leave my head was told to my class the first day of class when I moved to New York at the Conservatory. Our teacher told us to look around at everybody in the class, and to realize that the majority of us in 10 years would not be in the performing arts. In fact she said that the chances were that only one person out of the entire entering class would survive as an actor. I thought to myself when she said this that I would be the one because of my history growing up performing. While, I will say she was wrong, quite a few of my fellow students have gone on to become quite successful, I was not one of those.</p>
<p>In retrospect here's how I would like to of done it. I would have attended the University and minored in theater or musical theater so that I did not have to list that as my BFA. I know that sounds terrible, but after enough years in business I would give anything to have gone to business school and as harsh as it may sound a theater degree or musical theater degree does not put you at the top of the list when trying to get into business school. Now in my case I did not even have a degree so I had no chance of even trying to get in. My lack of formal liberal arts education definitely created an insecurity when it came to negotiating business deals for fear that I was not following everything that was really going on. </p>
<p>In the last few years I have moved back into the arts. The truth is, you never lose the passion you have for performing, it's just that you find different outlets to express it. To this day I still take pride in pitching investors for half $1 million investments in my company. I still sing in the shower, and it's true your voice gets better and higher with age. I can finally hit all of those notes I used to dream about hitting while in my early 20s. But I do watch many of my friends who have continued on in the theater working Broadway gig to Broadway gig never knowing what jobs next. It's a tough life, and there is lots and lots of a really really good people out there. I was the big fish in a little pond until I got to New York and started auditioning. Even with terrific agents and amazing contacts, you still have to deal with the fact that there are 45-year-old man who are able to play 22-year-olds who have been working a lot longer than any 22-year-old. That is a hard reality to face.</p>
<p>I am very fearful that I might convince any parents to hold their children back based on my comments. As I said, I never got the BFA so I am really not one to talk or give advice. I just know that if I was to do it again, I would have put more focus on a formal education. There are plenty of actors out there who studied English and then got their masters in theater or musical theater. </p>
<p>My apologies for rambling on so, perhaps the Niquil has got the best of me right now.</p>
<p>The biggest problem with all of this rambling is that if I was told this by somebody when I was still 18 or even 22 I would've told them to buzz off and told myself that they were just one of the failures that come out of the industry, so I'm sure that any student that reads this will see it is the same.</p>
<p>Not sure this helps, but at least it's honest.</p>
<p>Best Regards</p>