Some California community colleges have dorms on campus or private dorms just off campus. For example, College of the Siskiyous.
http://www.siskiyous.edu/lodges/
If you want to get away from home, can you afford to go to a CC with housing?
I took some classes at a California CC when I was in the military. I thought the quality of the teaching was as good as at the two, 4-year colleges I went to for my bachelors - Ohio State and University of Alaska Fairbanks. In California at least, I certainly don’t sense any stigma in going to a CC right after high school. Back in the 80’s and 90’s, it seemed like half the people I knew who graduated from Berkeley had gone to CC first.